Young people today are navigating a rapidly changing world - economically, socially and emotionally. Many are struggling to find direction. For boys in particular, even a simple search for advice on fitness, confidence or relationships can quickly lead them into a stream of online content that promotes extreme or unhealthy ideas. This is the reality of the digital age and the nature of today's attention economy.
This topic has gained renewed attention with the release of the critically acclaimed TV show 'Adolescence', which highlights the complex challenges boys are facing. In recent years, there has been a concerning rise in online spaces that present confusing and often harmful ideas about masculinity. Many boys are exposed to messages that glorify toughness, emotional detachment and dominance, while dismissing empathy, vulnerability, and kindness as signs of weakness. These outdated ideals are limiting boys' emotional growth and shaping how they engage with others. The impact is real - and it's being felt across our schools, homes and communities.
We need to consider how we can best support boys as they grow into respectful, confident and emotionally intelligent young men. With a constant stream of messages shaping their beliefs - from social media and online influencers to schoolyard conversations and pop culture - it's more important than ever to offer boys consistent guidance grounded in care, clarity and connection.
This means introducing healthier role models and creating safe spaces where boys feel encouraged to express themselves openly. They need to understand that seeking help and showing emotion are not signs of weakness, but of inner strength - and that respect for others is a true marker of maturity. Encouraging positive, cross-gender relationships offer enormous benefits to boys, helping broaden their perspectives, challenge stereotypes and develop respectful relationship skills for life.
The Australian Government has developed an interactive tool called The Algorithm of Disrespect to help adults understand the subtle and often hidden forms of online disrespect. It simulates a typical young person's digital experience, offering valuable insight into what many young people encounter online. To explore the tool, click the button labelled ENTER JAMES' PHONE via the link HERE.
For more information on how to support young men online, click HERE to view a resource from the Anti-Bullying Centre.
To better understand the hidden meanings behind emojis - as highlighted in the TV show 'Adolescence' - here is a resources you may find helpful:
