There is no right or wrong way to deal with the loss of a loved one. The grieving process is rough and it's different for everyone. It's not just a matter of coping with a loss, but coping with change and that takes time. How do you deal with the death of a loved one? How do you live your life in the face of a life-changing event? They don't have all the answers. Honestly, you'll need to work through your through the stages of grieving in a way that works for you, but they do have some advice to help you heal.